Ollivander Posted January 6, 2018 Share Posted January 6, 2018 I just got hired on a medical assistant in the OR, and I've immediately noticed that I struggle with small talk like the rest of the staff seems to excel at. I've been so stressed keeping up with the pace of all of the tasks and skills I'm expected to learn in a short amount of time in order to function in the role they've assigned to me that I'm starting to become aware that I'm being very stand-offish during their conversations. Is this a big issue in healthcare? I'm more focused on what I need to do next for the patient or the physician that I can't process chit chatting while doing that. I've just started to become concerned about it and wanted to see what this forum thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UGoLong Posted January 6, 2018 Share Posted January 6, 2018 As a PA, you will need to build rapport quickly with new people. Maybe relax a bit and stop stressing so much. Your colleagues are your work family; enjoy them. Maybe pick out one person there to start with.Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mich.harris109 Posted January 8, 2018 Share Posted January 8, 2018 I think once you have mastered your job duties/functions you will get more comfortable and be able to come out of your shell more. The first few weeks-months at a new job isn't the ideal time to do self analysis. Everyone is a little awkward and out-of-place right at first. It'll get better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moleashish Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 Just like how you need to master your work duties by practicing and actively working to improve the skills, people skills require just as much attention. Given, for some people talking and conversing comes natural, but for many it requires more time. My point, don't beat yourself too much over this. You've identified the issue, now as mich above suggested, start with one coworker. New places are always awkward at first, being the only new person there. This is the time to improve your small talks skills. It will come in handy during interviews. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jlumsden Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Come up with a few stock questions to ask the patient. Things like "Do you live in the city, or in the suburbs"?, or "Did you have trouble finding parking?", or "Have you recovered from the holidays yet?" should work. When they answer, build on their response by asking another question, like "Did you go anywhere fun for Christmas?". It will get easier in time. I'm not an amazing conversationalist, but I do ok at work because the breadth of small talk topics isn't very wide. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ollivander Posted January 11, 2018 Author Share Posted January 11, 2018 8 hours ago, jlumsden said: Come up with a few stock questions to ask the patient. Things like "Do you live in the city, or in the suburbs"?, or "Did you have trouble finding parking?", or "Have you recovered from the holidays yet?" should work. When they answer, build on their response by asking another question, like "Did you go anywhere fun for Christmas?". It will get easier in time. I'm not an amazing conversationalist, but I do ok at work because the breadth of small talk topics isn't very wide. It's more so with coworkers as opposed to patients. Conversing with patients is much easier because the window you see them for is much smaller. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jlumsden Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 Part of this will improve in time. You’ll get comfortable with each other in time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sam0513 Posted January 11, 2018 Share Posted January 11, 2018 I agree this takes time (at least for me to get comfortable enough). If your looking for conversation starters try listening to other people’s conversations. Then later incorporate same information in your conversations. For example people talk about vacations before they go. Once they return ask about how the vacation went. Or ask if they have seen latest movie. Some people like talking about their kids, you could ask what their kids are doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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