why cant you have your cake and eat it too. why cant you have it all. why do men supposedly make more than women? Men dont produce children , which would interupt their career path, schooling, practice, family life ect...as much as women do. is that fair? Is it fair that only women can experience the joy of childbirth and have a bond with their child that the father can only imagine in his wildest dreams. Fair has diddly squat to do with anything in this life. Fair is a concept, vague and indistinct, totally subjective and in contention at all times if there is more than a single subject requesting fairness. Fair is what comes to town in the fall and it has cotton candy and pony rides...thats a fair. One should hope for justice and pray for mercy. Thats as good as it gets. just a passing thought. Thats fair.